Be Tough Mijo

This piece explores the silent weight placed on Mexican boys to be strong, hardworking, and unbreakable. The phrase, “Be Tough Mijo,” comes from the dismissal of feelings that Mexican parents usually give to their male children. The term “Mijo,” comes from the Spanish word: “Mijo.” From a young age, messages rooted in love, but shaped by cultural expectations of masculinity. Strength is praised. Tears are discouraged. Vulnerability is mistaken for weakness.